A grandiose narcissist will boast about their achievements and paint themselves as the hero in every story. A vulnerable narcissist, on the other hand, will play the victim, complaining about how everyone has wronged them, and they’ll expect you to fix their problems.
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3. They Intentionally Message You at Inconvenient Times
This is one of the most manipulative behaviors of a narcissist. They will deliberately message you when you’re busy, whether you’re working, in a meeting, studying, or attending to an important matter. They demand your attention at the most inconvenient times because, in their minds, nothing should be more important than them.
They might even fabricate a false emergency to trap you into responding. For example, they might say something alarming like, “So-and-so had to be taken to the hospital. It’s an emergency, but I see you’re not available.” Then they’ll delete the message after ensuring you’ve seen it, leaving you anxious and desperate for more information. This tactic is designed to exploit your empathy.
Once you discover that nothing happened, you’ll be furious, but they’ll twist the situation, saying things like, “I just wanted a little attention. I did it for us, and all I get from you is anger. You’re abusing me.” They’ll make you feel guilty, forcing you to soothe them while unknowingly betraying yourself.
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