Narcissists are exclusively concerned with themselves.
If you continue to fulfill a need for them and provide them with a sense of significance, they will continue to value you. Whether they perceive you to be easy or hard to get, narcissists will still try to exploit you to achieve what they want; assuming that you have something that they want.
In the end, it’s not about you; it’s all about the narcissists who want to rule the world. They have a history of employing a variety of strategies to eliminate those they perceive as threats. We’ll examine a few of these approaches in this topic.
Intelligent people are not swayed by the opinions of others.
These folks have mature thought patterns and demeanor indicative of their level of development. For today’s discussion, then let’s look at how narcissists behave around people who aren’t easily persuaded. Or who has strong opinions about what they want? Narcissists have a bad rep for being hearty because they refuse to see others for who they truly are.
Not easily persuaded.
Individuals who are not readily persuaded typically possess strong self-belief, a solid grasp of reality, and a healthy dose of confidence. A narcissist’s fragile ego will be hurt by this, but that doesn’t stop them from trying to track down the suspects though. It’s true that narcissists can be found wherever.
The narcissist’s ultimate goal is to destroy anyone who poses a danger to their authority; hence they will stop at nothing to achieve this. Narcissists think that the only way to feel better about themselves is to make the people around them feel bad about themselves.
Even if some of us are smart and strong when it comes to narcissists’ tricks, we might not fall for the love bombs they throw at us. However, they are still determined to change our lives and wait for us to let our garb down.
Love bombing.
Love bombing might seem like narcissists’ favorite way to get other people to do what they want, but they have other ways of doing it. For example, when they realize that flattery and charm aren’t enough, they’ll act like victims to get you to feel sorry for them.
We have to accept that narcissists don’t care what other people think of them, they just need a place to start. This means that they can’t anything they can get attention, whether it’s love, affection, or pity.
Because your emotional interest in them shows that they’re important to you, and have an effect on your life. They’ll keep working with that angle, and add some flattery and charm to help seal the deal if they can make you feel sorry for them.
Make you feel sorry for them.
If love bombing doesn’t work, they will often make a last-ditch effort to get our sympathy and make us feel sorry for them. This is done to gain control, and force us to do what they want; they would lie about being sick, so they wouldn’t have to do their jobs.
In some cases, they’ll even hurt themselves on purpose to get your attention. These people will complain and beg you for help- saying they have nowhere else to go, and they will keep saying it. When they’re up against someone strong, narcissists tend to act weak.
Narcissists will act weak.
They get into your life by making themselves look weak and humble in order to gain your trust. They want to hurt you slowly, so they make sure to get into every part of your life until you let down your guard.
At the end of the day, you may have helped them get out of a ditch, but they may turn around throw you back into the ditch, and keep going without showing any remorse for what they’ve done, so be careful always.
They will say they love you.
Narcissists will say they love you or act like they’re a victim to get you to fall for their scam. When they are able to take down a well-known person, who in this case you are, it gives them a big boost to their self-esteem and makes them think they are stronger and better.
They do it with joy and then throw you out when they’ve gotten all they could get out of you. If they can’t change you directly and bring you to your knees, they only have one option left. They’ll act like they look up to you, and want to learn from you wherever you go.
Still, the narcissist doesn’t have many choices in this situation, that’s because you have a strong mind, and they didn’t get to know you well enough to find any weaknesses or secrets you might have. So, their other choice is to pay attention to people who are close to them.
The narcissist will use anyone who believes their lies to get into your life, or just find out more about you. They are experts at lying; they would want a close relationship with a close friend or family member.
And narcissists will do whatever they can to make you feel bad, and to turn your friends and family against you. And they only have one goal, and that is to make people dislike you because they see you as a threat.
They need attention from other people.
The narcissist will never be happy if you just don’t like them, betray them, or leave them. They’ll always look for new ways to hurt you, and they want everyone around you to help them does it. Because of this, they use every chance they get to spread false stories and talk about other people.
For example, they will do whatever it takes to get you fired from your job. Even if you do a good job, if everyone is against you, you won’t be able to keep your job there. People like them are the ones who will say you did things you didn’t do.
When a narcissist sees that you are more popular and respected than they are, they will obsess over ways to bring you down. They will do this because they are afraid of what you will do to them.
They will do whatever it takes.
Narcissists spend their whole lives trying to get everything they don’t already have. Dominance is the only thing that matters to them, so they will steal, lie, cheat, and manipulate their way into your life to get it.
They just can’t stand it when other people do better than they do. In their minds, they hate it when people see through the fake personas they’ve made for themselves.
They don’t like it.
Narcissists don’t like it when we don’t believe their lies and fall into their webs. These people don’t like how moral we are and how independent we are. Because of this, they try to take these things away from us and hurt us in the process.
The narcissist is finally ready to take on the task of beating you, no matter how easy or hard you are for them to beat. If they can’t get you to like them by love bombing or playing the victim, they’ll try to trick you and ask someone you know and trust to help.
This means you have to know their tricks and plans and accept that this will always be the case, no matter how far you get, no matter how high up the social ladder you get. A narcissist will always try to pull you back down.
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