Number 8: Don’t allow the narcissist in your life to define you.
Your narcissistic wife will attempt to define you and not in a positive way. Refuse to accept a narcissist’s idea of you. They may accuse you of being slothful, selfish, inept with money, or having other bad traits. Recognize that these statements are untrue and that you are not obligated to accept them. Don’t relinquish your control. Allow no one else to make your decisions for you.
Think of yourself as the strong, self-sufficient individual that you are. Maintain your integrity. All of your life choices should be based on what is best for you. Ensure that you have a support structure in place and are not just talking to the wall. Narcissists often give their partners silent treatment when they are upset. When this occurs, ensure that you have someone to confide in, such as a friend or family member. Engage in some activities with your children. You may write in a notebook or perhaps seek counseling.
Number 7: Confront her with candor and strength.
When narcissists engage in romantic relationships, they often assume they are the only ones who are flawless. And, if they have difficulties in their relationship, they blame others. It doesn’t matter if it’s people at work, at home, or in social circumstances.
Additionally, they have no qualms about going to any length to get what they want. They lack compassion for others, and they need attention. Narcissists crave admiration, and they sometimes take credit for other people’s efforts. They may be quite disrespectful to their coworkers and then abruptly alter their conduct when their supervisor walks in. To seem pleasant and hardworking, they may appear to be friendly.
Their conduct at home might have a significant influence on the family. If you marry one and she becomes your wife, she may be quite critical of you. She may be aloof and domineering, which may make you feel insignificant, disregarded, and lonely. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, it may be very difficult and draining.
The only way to cope with it and avoid losing your mind is to have the ability to let her know when things disturb you. Do not just flee. Inform her of any concerns you have. Be brave, consistent, and truthful.
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