Number 9: Accept that your wife is a narcissist.
There are many techniques to determine if someone is a narcissist or not. If you’ve been attempting to determine if your wife is one, this may assist you. If you feel lonely, that may be a clue that she is a narcissist. After they marry, narcissists often attempt to isolate their spouse from their friends and family. This is a systematic and long procedure. This is an area in which they excel.
You may even begin to question why you ever made friends in the first place. They will talk negatively about your friends and family to the point that you will be inclined to avoid them. Narcissists will gaslight you and make you feel insane. When you attempt to address a problem, they will respond with statements such as, “Can’t you take a joke?” or, “I never said that.”
Another indicator that your wife is a narcissist is if, before marriage, she was always showering you with praise, but after marriage, the sentiment shifted radically, and now she only showers you with compliments when other people are around. She wants to seem like she’s a good wife because it helps her feel less insecure and makes her feel good about herself. She may be deliberately attempting to make you envious.
Have you ever suspected that your wife was attempting to make you jealous? Has she ever purposefully flirted with someone in your presence? If so, she is almost certainly doing it on purpose if she is in fact a narcissist. In addition to trying to make you jealous, she will also be somewhat envious of you. She may get very resentful if you spend time with another person, even if it is one of your own children. If you’re married to a narcissist, she’ll continuously criticize you.
One of the most upsetting aspects will be if she tells you that you are not a good parent. Often, the narcissistic spouse is not as interested in child-rearing as the other parent, but enjoys criticizing their spouse for their child-rearing abilities. Additionally, they may speak negatively about you to your family and friends. This is another method they use to isolate you so that you would have no one to turn to buy them.
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