Stage 2: They begin reflecting on all the information they have on the narcissist to find something to hurt them with.
As the patterns of abuse continue to weigh down on the super empath, they begin to look back on their relationship with their abuser. Whether it’s a romantic partner, a parent, or a friend, they begin searching for moments where their abuser was caught being deceitful, when they showed vulnerability to specific criticisms or showed pride for a specific accomplishment that they’d hate to be torn down.
The super empath isn’t sure what they will do with the information at this moment, and in the beginning, the thought of using it to hurt the narcissist sounds impossible. But as we’ll see in the next step, their warm, gentle, kindness becomes extinguished over time.
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Stage 3: Instead of being empathetic, they begin to become cold and bitter.
As more time is spent around the toxic narcissist who absorbs their empathy for their own narcissistic supply, the empath will grow cold and bitter. Their natural instinct of wincing at the thought of hurting their loved ones becomes weaker, and instead, they feel a desire for it. Without their empathy, they appear like a hollow shell, void of any reaction toward their abuser’s devaluation or manipulations.
To the narcissist, it may appear as if they’ve destroyed the empath. They think they have smothered their spirit, their flame, that they have successfully broken them into another trophy for their collection. But if the narcissist is dealing with a super empath, their flame won’t burn out without a show. Like a supergiant star in the sky, the supernova explosion is just about to begin.
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