Number 5: Silence means sanity.
They know if they give you space, if they let you be silent, you will start thinking and they don’t want you to keep thinking, they want you to just listen and do what they want you to do. They want you to act robotic. They know if they let you be, you will start feeling things and that might override your cognitive dissonance, the confusion, is he bad? Is she bad? Maybe she is not.
In someone, the inner splitting, maybe you will see through them, maybe you will understand, maybe you will find out who you are dealing with. They want you to keep running, as I said, they want you to keep walking on eggshells, they want you to stay hyper-vigilant and when you’re hyper-vigilant, the chatter goes on from them as well as in your brain.
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They don’t want to take any chances, no, they want to keep consuming you all the time, 24/7, so that your head stays where it should be according to them. They also know if you bring it back to yourself, if you gain access to your self-agency, they will lose because you will realize that they are not as great as they make themselves to be or they are not as innocent as they say they are and you’re not as guilty as they blame you to be.
Silence sometimes can be freeing but only for you, for a narcissist, these are the most horrible chains, the strongest chains they can ever get stuck in.
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