Number 2: Become Your Best and the Most Authentic Version Possible
Your happiness is a narcissist’s grief, pain, and misery, which is why they hover and stalk you to see if you’re still in the dungeons of darkness and despair they put you in. They can’t let you be confident and vibrant again. In fact, they hate to see you shine and glow because that would mean they are a failure and they count for nothing.
It would mean all of their preconceived notions around omnipotence and supremacy are nothing but a bunch of lies they have gaslighted themselves to distort their reality. They have to keep you in the trap to believe that the trap they are in does not exist. They punish you for distracting them from the punishment they have been going through for eternity.
Related: 7 Indicators of Mental Abuse by Narcissists
Therefore, you must find it in you to become that to them which they despise above all else. It shows them that they are ordinary, not larger than life like they pretend to be. It shows them you do not need them nor care what they do one way or another.
Your indifference to a narcissist lets them know that you cannot be bothered even to hate them. Your energy is too valuable even to waste a moment thinking about them. It’s a real blow to their ego.
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