Narcissists also tend to interrupt and talk over others, not caring about what anyone else has to say. It feels like they’re holding an invisible remote control and muting you and others. It’s hard to get a word in; no matter the topic, they find a way to bring it back to themselves. They’re always fishing for compliments and looking for validation.
“You fooler. Did I do good?” “You did great.”
You’ll also hear them talk about grand plans or fantasies of success, power, or brilliance that seem pretty unrealistic. These exaggerated stories and their constant need for praise can be a big giveaway that you’re dealing with a narcissist.
Let me teach you something: don’t be afraid to speak out when caught up in this situation. Everyone has freedom of speech. You can say, “I’d like to finish what I was saying,” or “Let’s hear what others think.” If the narcissist keeps taking over the conversation, you might want to spend less time with them. Ask yourself, “What benefit do I get from listening to their self-centered storytelling? Are they worth my time, attention, and energy?”
2. Narcissists don’t accept constructive criticism.
What would you feel if someone gave you negative feedback? Of course, you would feel bad, right? And it’s normal to feel that way if you receive a negative comment. But how you deal with it will define your character and personality. If someone constantly rejects constructive criticism or friendly advice, it means they have narcissistic tendencies.
Narcissists always think they know best and don’t like to hear that they might be wrong. Try giving a narcissist feedback, and you’ll see what I mean. They get defensive or angry because they want to protect their ego. As Dr. Craig Malkin, author of Rethinking Narcissism, puts it, “Narcissists can’t stand to be criticized. To them, it’s like being hit by a truck.” When you point out a mistake, they’ll often come up with a hundred reasons why it’s someone else’s fault. They’re like Teflon – nothing sticks to them.
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When dealing with a narcissist, highlight how accepting feedback can benefit them. Narcissists are often motivated by personal gain, so showing how your advice can help them succeed might make them more open to listening. You might also try framing your feedback in a way that doesn’t feel like a personal attack. Use “I” instead of “you” statements. If the narcissist continues to reject your feedback, it’s better to stay away from them before they explode.
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