Number 3: Forever Stuck
They want you to be depressed or permanently sad as a result of their departure. They want you to blame yourself. They want you to remain alone and just stuck on every level. That is why getting over the Narcissist is essential. You must decide that the Narcissist leaving is not the end of your life. There is still so much more you can do and accomplish. Happiness can finally be yours now without them in your life. Success is the best revenge.
The Narcissist does not want you to move forward, and in some cases, they do not expect you to. They want you to continually cry over them, long for them and even beg them for another chance. You have to knock their expectations aside, pick yourself up, and start again. I’m not saying it is going to be easy, but it will be worth it.
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Summary and Final Thoughts
To conclude, as you can see, these are some of the main expectations of the Narcissist after a breakup or a discard. And even though the Narcissist’s Discard can be a very hurtful and confusing time, they can only still think about what more they can get from you. But you do not have to entertain what they want.
Knowing what your options are at the end of a Narcissistic Relationship is so important in helping you to heal and move forward. You get to finalize in your mind how you are going to deal with this person. Are you going to cut them off completely, have extremely limited contact with them, or grey rock your way through?
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