The second thing that they do not want you to know is that they have no original thoughts.
Self-help books are a godsend for narcissists. Books like “How to Win Friends and Influence People” are the types of books that narcissists would read because it tells them how to do something that will make them fit in and have success. After all, no one would think that someone with friends, admirers, and who is successful has something majorly wrong with them.
They take the ideas and even the phrases from books like these and regurgitate them, even from their social groups. If they realize someone is very successful by being humorous or communicating in a certain way, they will quickly adopt that person’s behavior.
The same applies to relationships. Narcissists are drawn to people who are more emotionally intelligent and well-rounded than they are and steal your character traits as their own. Narcissists will turn you into a sad, miserable human being if you stay with them long enough and remain unaware of what is happening.
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