Number 2: “That’s not true.”
It’s not true. If a narcissist says something and you respond, “Nonsense, what you’re saying isn’t true at all,” what will happen? You will anger them. Why? Because a narcissist hates being contradicted, especially regarding their lies. They hate being exposed, especially in public. If you’re in public and the narcissist is there with a group of friends, and you notice they’re telling a big lie and it’s not true at all, you say, “That’s not true,” then you’re contradicting their entire being.
A narcissist, in every circumstance, wants to escape reality. They live in a fantasy, constantly telling themselves lies to believe they are perfect. So they create lies that align with their fantasy. If you tell them, “That’s not true; you’re talking nonsense,” you break their fantasy for two seconds. Those two seconds are terrible for a narcissist because they are confronted with their emptiness and lies.
This will anger them because, once again, they cannot introspect and say, “Maybe there’s a problem with what I’m saying; maybe I’m the problem.” To avoid confronting reality and their lies and saying, “I’m guilty,” they immediately activate their rage and turn the situation against you, blaming you instead.
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Number 3: “It’s none of your business.”
If you see a narcissist talking about something, they approach you, and you say, “That doesn’t concern you; it’s none of your business.” Again, the narcissist thinks they’re God; God knows everything and must know everything. So if you tell God, “It’s none of your business,” it won’t go well. The narcissist is the same; “It’s none of your business.”
The narcissist wants to be the center of attention, which is something you’ve probably already noticed. They want to be the center of attention. Now, depending on the type of narcissist, an extroverted narcissist will want to be the center of attention in a group, but even an introverted one will seek attention and try to know everything.
The narcissist hates not being the center of attention. They would hate the idea that three people know the truth, but they don’t. Once again, the narcissist doesn’t differentiate between themselves and others. To them, everyone is an extension of themselves, so they need to know everything. The idea that the other isn’t them is terrible because, for them, they belong to everyone; they are everyone. It’s a bit strange to hear, but that’s exactly what the narcissist thinks about relationships and others.
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