Number 3: When you set boundaries.
They don’t like to be told what to do, they’re all about being in control and they love to make other people feel powerless. Setting a boundary from a narcissist is an act of power. They are used to getting what they want that when someone else stands up for themselves, it can feel like an attack on their identity.
When you set boundaries with a narcissist, it can hurt them forever. Setting healthy boundaries is a complicated process, but it’s important to remember that your needs are your top priority.
When setting boundaries for them, they must be aware of how they might respond. They may try to manipulate or guilt-trip you into changing your mind but don’t get caught up in these reactions instead.
Rather than getting defensive or trying to defend yourself against accusations of Abandonment, try focusing on making sure the boundaries are clear and consistent. If they try to manipulate you, their tactics will be easier to spot and resist.
Number 4: When you are at peace without them.
If you want to permanently hurt a narcissist, you must be at peace without them. A narcissist can’t stand the feeling of you being better off without them. This makes them feel like they have lost control over you, which a narcissist cannot tolerate- simply enjoy your life without them.
A narcissist will never understand why you can be happy without them, and they will feel frightened by your happiness and peace. They need you to need them for them to feel like they can function correctly. Their entire world starts crumbling around them if they see that you don’t need them anymore.
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