Number 1: When you are happy without them.
They are notoriously self-centered, so it’s no wonder they can’t stand it when you’re happy without them. It hurts their feelings when they see you happy without them; because they think they should be the only one who makes you happy.
Narcissists are constantly looking for attention, they need to hear that their presence is notable and to be validated by others’ admiration of them. Suppose you’re out having a blast or doing something enjoyable with your friends. In that case, The Narcissist will get consumed by jealousy and rage.
They will treat this as a personal attack on their ego and will always find a way to make it all about them. Being happy on your own will have the narcissist question and cause them to spiral into self-destructive behavior or depression.
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Number 2: When you neglect and stop caring about them.
Narcissists won’t take it lightly, they’ll either pretend to forget that you don’t care anymore or they’ll get mad at you for neglecting them. If you’ve ever been with a narcissist, there’s nothing worse than when they realize that you’ve stopped giving them the care and attention that they desperately need.
In addition, they are very sensitive, when they feel neglected; they feel like they have no value. They can feel hurt and abandoned, resulting in severe consequences for you. And they can start feeling like they’re not good enough and have no purpose in life. Narcissists think the world revolves around them, and they feel entitled to everything in it.
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