Number 2: Narcissists will protect their feelings and blame you for how they feel.
They will project their feelings and blame you for how they feel. They do this because they don’t want to be responsible for their emotions, so they blame others for what is happening inside them. By doing this they set themselves up as victims, which allows them to play the role of hero.
This makes them feel justified in doing whatever it takes to get back at you. Narcissists are masters of manipulation and control, they notice what buttons to push on other people to get what they want. The narcissist will say: “You made me feel this way”.
Narcissists ensure that you take responsibility for them, even though they are at fault. They will also accuse you of doing things that they have done. Narcissists will never admit they’ve done wrong because they only want to see things from their perspective.
Number 3: Narcissists will try to get back at you by spreading false stories and rumors.
Narcissists need control and attention, so they often find ways to get back at you when you cut off contact with one. One popular way they do this is by spreading rumors about you. The narcissist may tell people that you’re crazy or dangerous or just trying to revenge on them.
They can be very vindictive and will not hesitate to spread lies about you. Narcissists may even try to convince others that you are the one who was abusive, not them. Narcissists may even make up a rumor about how you cheated on them or stole from them, they may tell people how manipulative you are, or even claim you have a sexually transmitted disease.
These lies can be very damaging to your reputation. This is why keeping your distance from a narcissist after ending a relationship or cutting off a connection is important. Otherwise, narcissists can always use their connections with others to get back at you in extremely difficult ways to disprove.
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