Number 1: They will stalk you on social media.
Once you break up and move on from a narcissist, be prepared for them to lurk on your social media pages. If you change your relationship status from in a relationship to single, then narcissists will probably notice. They’ll often send you messages friend request you, and try to communicate with you in any way they can. This isn’t because they miss you, they want to keep tabs on what you’re doing. This allows them to feel superior to you, which helps their fragile egos stay intact.
Narcissists like to have as many sources of information as possible, to keep track of every detail of their victims’ lives, and use it against them. They might even post negative comments about you on your profile, and start leaving passive-aggressive comments on your posts. Narcissists might also try to contact people who know both of you and ask them for information about what’s going on with you.
Number 2: They will promise to change.
Narcissists are incredibly manipulative people, so if you move on from them, they will do everything in their power to make you change your mind. They’ll offer a seemingly sincere apology, and claim that they will change their ways. They might even tell you that you’re the only person who can fix them, or that no one else will ever be able to make them happy.
Narcissists may say they have had a wake-up call, and you’re the only one who truly understands them. They’ll tell you that they’ve heard your message, and are willing to do whatever it takes to make things right between you. If it sounds too good to be true, probably is! The narcissist will say anything and mean nothing to keep you in their clutches, and if they were really sincere about changing, they wouldn’t have done what they did in the first place.
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