Number 8: Narcissists want to prove to you they will write all along.
After a breakup, they will try to show you that you were wrong for leaving them. And if they can’t do that, they’ll try to make you feel guilty for wanting out of their relationship in the first place.
Narcissists see things as black and white, either someone is with them or against them, and there’s no gray area. They will try to get you back by saying things like See, “I knew we were meant to be together”. This happens when you let your pride get in the way of love.
They will do anything to manipulate you into believing that they’re right and that their behavior was justified. They make it seem like they only want what’s best for their relationship, or because it was all your fault anyway.
Number 9: Narcissists want to feel better than you.
They will do everything they can to ensure that they’re feeling better than you after a breakup. They will try to act like it doesn’t matter if they’ve moved on, and like you were never anything more than an extra in their ground life story.
Narcissists need to feel superior to others to maintain their self-worth and self-esteem. If they aren’t, then they feel like they’re not worth anything at all. That’s why they’re so competitive and always have to be the best at everything they do. They are never happy unless they’re on top of the world.
And they want to be better than everyone around them, they want you to see them as superior to you in every way more attractive, more accomplished, more intelligent, and more enjoyable. After a breakup, narcissists want to feel like they are winning again.
Number 10: Narcissists want to get revenge on you.
After the breakup, they want to make you feel as bad as they do, so they’ll do anything to make you feel like you’re the cause of their pain. Narcissists want to hurt you because that’s how they get their power back; they’ve also probably been planning ways to ensure you never forget them.
They may want to do revenge by making you feel guilty or by making you look bad in front of other people. And may also try to make you look bad by spreading rumors about you or telling lies about what happened between you. A narcissist first wants to make you feel like you’re the wrong one after a breakup; they will blame you for their problems and say you are the reason for it.
They will make you feel bad about yourself so that you can feel better about yourself. Also, they will pretend they didn’t do anything wrong even if they did. Narcissists will tell you that they were the best thing that happened in your life, which isn’t true because they never really cared about you.
Read More: What Will A Narcissistic Ex Do To You After the Break-Up?
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