Number 6: Narcissists want you to be jealous of your new partner.
They are generally very insecure and want everyone to know that they’ve moved on from their ex. If they know you’re not over them and still care about them, they will often bring their new partner up to rub it in your face.
Narcissists want you to be jealous of their new partner. This is because they want your attention, and if you’re jealous, you’re thinking about them. They will make sure that they have a new person in their lives who is attractive and exciting.
And they want you to feel like they’re out there having the time of their life, while you’re still stuck in the past. They want you to think they’ve moved on, while you still dwell on what happened between you.
Number 7: Narcissists want you to think they’ve changed.
They are usually great at telling people what they want to hear. So, it’s no surprise that they’ll try to convince you that they’ve changed after a breakup. Narcissists don’t change though; they just change their tactics.
They will say anything to get back into your good graces and use you again. Narcissists might say they miss you or tell you how sorry they are for hurting you, but it’s all lies. In reality, they have no remorse and don’t care about anyone but themselves.
They are just trying to make you feel more comfortable with them so that you will let your guard down and trust them again. Their goal is to get back into your life and manipulate you even more than they did before.
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