Number 2: They want you to feel like a failure.
A narcissist will make sure that you feel like a failure, even though they’re the ones who broke up with you. This is because they don’t want to take responsibility for their actions and want to ensure you never get over them.
Narcissists will often tell their exes that they were never good enough for them and that no one else will ever want them. They will tell you they were always bored with you and wanted to be with someone else. Whatever, it takes to make you feel like less than what they think of themselves.
Narcissists love to make their Partners feel like they’re the cause of all their problems, and that the narcissist is just a helpless victim. This way, the narcissist can keep people around them who are essentially in a codependent relationship where they can take care of the narcissist’s needs.
Number 3: Narcissists want you to beg them back into your life.
They are addicted to power and control, they thrive on the feeling of being desired and the idea that they can have anything they want. When you break up with a narcissist, they become obsessed with getting you back.
They will spend every moment trying to convince you that your life without them is meaningless. And that you need them more than anything else. They still love it when you beg them to take you back after a breakup because it gives them power.
And they thrive on the feeling of having control over you and your emotions- it’s part of this sick game. The more you feel like they hold the keys to your happiness, the more they get off on it.
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