Number 9: You are too possessive of them.
Narcissists are madly possessive individuals, they cannot love but possess. It is not about love, but it is more about control. For a narcissist you are a property they can control and primarily serve their needs, they want to be the dominant ones in every relationship.
But once you become like them, the narcissist will never be happy about it. Once you become one of those possessive ones, a narcissist will never care. They can discard you for good, for they don’t want to settle with someone with this thinking and attitude. After serving your purpose as a supply, they will never want to keep you for any reason. It simply means they are done with you, and you are useless to them.
Number 10: You establish clear boundaries.
A narcissist is used to getting their way, and will most likely put you under pressure to do whatever they want you to do. When you first start setting boundaries, there will be more pushback from them. They will eventually discover that you will not be intimidated into doing what they want; your boundaries will be interpreted as a narcissistic injury by the narcissist.
The consequences of announcing your independence will be severe. In essence, you’re fighting for yourself; you will have to give up your identity to avoid these penalties from your partner. Don’t waste another valuable minute of your life attempting to persuade someone to see, care for, validate, or love you more.
Instead, learn how to deal with the regret of being in a one-sided and painful relationship. Discarding you for good because you have clear boundaries has its share of benefits. Life is a whole lot better without a narcissist in your life.
Being with a narcissist may make you question your reality and needs; they are unable to comprehend how their actions and words influence others. A discard might feel abrupt, unexpected, and cruel.
Being discarded by them can be traumatic, making it feel like a devastating loss, they immediately had someone lined up next to you after pitching you, and the cycle of abuse continues with the next victim.
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