Number 4: You offended them in a way that damages their self-esteem.
The rules are different when dealing with the narcissist, a typical person may feel hurt, insulted, or angry when offended. Offending a narcissist, on the other hand, can have instant long-lasting, and possibly irreversible consequences.
Narcissists are extremely sensitive people with low self-esteem, offending them, even unintentionally, may cause them to permanently discard you. They have a distorted view of themselves, and they tend to interpret positive interactions as expected and negative interactions as personal attacks.
Narcissists live in a delusional state, perceiving offenses and criticism as attacks on them. They generally feel an inner emptiness and require attention and compliments to maintain their sense of reality.
Number 5: You find out their true identity and see them as weak individuals.
Narcissists have significant identity issues; their creation of a false persona is the main reason for their lack of identity. You are seen by the narcissist as a threat to their fictitious self. A narcissist will believe you are threatening his life and act accordingly.
The narcissist experiences fear if they see that you are becoming more observant and curious. Self-esteem is low in narcissists; on the outside, they present a strong self-assured image, but their fragility inside is due to past experiences.
The narcissists might permanently discard you if you ever learn of their weaknesses. When you reveal who they are, they develop a negative spot in their fragile ego and stew over it for days. Even if you are not insulting someone, they might think you are.
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